"I thought this kind of love was the exaggerated stuff of storybooks. But they don’t write storybooks about boys like us." In my guest post at The Queer Love Project, I share how Joshua and I queered our wedding to be the queer, trans celebration we all deserve.

On the outside, I was a 19-year-old girl entering my first marriage under the Mormon Church. Inside, I was struggling with gender dysphoria. How have you handled your memorabilia that no longer fits?

I wore the uncomfortable female undergarments growing up in Utah ... but when I left the church and came out as trans, I didn't expect it would be hard for me to get rid of them.

How I finally stopped carrying my ex-husband’s baggage for him.

Sitting in the audience at a recent Elliot Page event, 35 years later, I can hear a voice scolding me to keep my knees together.

I was gutted recently when the Harry Potter author successfully obliterated more rights for people like me. She was the key to my survival when I came out to my Mormon husband and family.

Writer Will Richardson remembers a recent Halloween adventure, more frightening for his and his husband’s journey into MAGA territory than any spooky costumes at hand.

All my partners had rejected me in some way for being a man. For looking like a man, for feeling like a man, for thinking like a man, where man is a bad word.